Send-off (መሸኛ) - Boston
Nov 22
2025
Bnai Moshe Venue
1845 commonwealth Ave
Brighton, MA 02135
United States
templebnaimoshe.org
Wedding Ceremony (ሰርግ) - Addis Ababa
Jan 11
2026
Inter Luxury Hotel (New building)
2Q89+9GW, Addis Ababa, Ethiopia
Addis Ababa, Ethiopia
interluxuryhotel.com
Melse (መልስ)
Jan 13
2026
Addis Ababa, Ethiopia
Before we head out for the big day, our family’s throwing a send-off right here in Boston --- Ethiopian style! Come for the music, the dancing, and the good vibes as we celebrate with our favorite people. Let’s eat, dance, and start the celebrations the right way!
Full Day program
Morning – Family Blessings & Arrival
The day begins at the bride’s and groom’s individual homes, where family and friends gather early to help them prepare for the celebration ahead. The groom receives heartfelt blessings from his parents and elders before setting off for the bride’s home — joined by his groomsmen, friends, and the lively rhythm of a small music band.
Upon arrival, the groom’s group is greeted by the bride’s family and bridesmaids with joyful songs. A playful push-and-shove ceremony follows — a symbolic tug-of-war meant to keep the groom from entering too easily. Amid the cheers and dancing, the groom is eventually “allowed in” to greet his bride. After sharing a light meal and receiving family blessings, the wedding party will head out for a photo program.
Photo Program – Mesk
After the lively morning festivities, the bride and groom head out with their wedding party for the photo program, known as Mesk.
Meanwhile, family and guests begin gathering at the reception venue, ready to welcome the newlyweds in true Ethiopian style.
Ceremony and Reception
As evening falls, the celebration begins. The bride and groom will arrive to a wave of cheers, music, and dancing. Surrounded by family and friends, the night unfolds in true Ethiopian fashion, filled with good food and endless dancing.
The celebrations continue on Tuesday, when close family and friends gather for the Melse. In this special tradition, the bride’s family invites the bride and groom back for a warm, intimate gathering. It’s a day to share food, music, and blessings — a beautiful moment that honors family and celebrates the couple’s new life together.
The week concludes with the Kelekel on Thursday, a warm and joyful gathering for extended family and friends. It’s a relaxed day filled with conversation, food, and music, a beautiful way to close out the wedding festivities.
During the Kelekel, the couple receives blessings from their loved ones as everyone comes together one last time to celebrate love, unity, and family before life begins to settle into its next chapter.